Some people call them "Promise rings."Other people prefer "Purity Ring" or "Chastity Ring."
For me, the idea of saving myself for marriage was nothing new. And I didn't need a ring to remind myself. BUT, being a girl :) and being 16 :) :) I was very delighted to open my birthday present to find a pretty gold band with 10 tiny diamonds from Mom and Dad.
A Promise Ring. And my parents asked me for more than just a promise to remain pure. I promised this:
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
-Proverbs 22:6
I've worn my Promise Ring for almost 11 years now. In fact, I wore out the original ring, and Mom and Dad kindly replaced it for me. So, the promise remains on my finger. A daily reminder to follow the path. To fight the fight.
For me, the fight isn't whether or not to remain pure.
For me, the fight is everyday, in my soul. Every hour, sometimes. A fight for righteousness.
A fight to keep my promise.
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That's really cool, flowershop girl!
The only time I've heard of promise rings being used is when a guy gives a girl a "promise ring" by committing to a relationship (obviously serious enough to lead to engagement and marriage). I've even heard of guys giving a girl a promise ring until he can actually purchase a diamond.
That is neat that your parents gave it to you and I like how you made a promise to them. So do you wear your promise ring on your ring finger?
Great post, Rebecca.
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